Judging by the millions of different opinions around the world, one thing is for certain: beauty cannot be measured by just one particular aspect; the possibilities are endless. It’s more than a pretty face and shapely body; it encompasses spiritual, mental and emotional elements as well. Beauty is a well-rounded characteristic we all possess because we were uniquely hand-crafted and wonderfully made.

However, there are so many women who, unfortunately, do not know how beautiful they are because pop culture has brainwashed us into believing that beauty is limited to a ‘perfect’ appearance. Some of us actually think that if we don’t look like the popular celebrity of the season, we’re not beautiful. When, in reality, our favorite stars [or the not so favorite], more often than not, don’t even look like their original selves. Regardless of our age or seniority, as women, we tend to compare ourselves to others and compete with one another.

What would it look like if, rather than competing with each other or competing with filters and Photoshop, we would work on ourselves? What would it look like if we made sure we were the best we can be instead of seeking validation from others?

Did you know once you start living to impress other people, you stop living for yourself?